In a survey I conducted, a reader wrote:
Wife thinks in the Certain Way, husband doesn't. Can this wife affect her husband's income in a positive way by Wallace D. Wattles' methods? How? (Husband must take action).
Yes, you can, in theory anyway. However, I think your interests would far better served by focusing your attention on what you're thinking and doing, not on what your husband is thinking and doing, or attempting to change what he's thinking and doing.
In Chapter 9 of The Science of Getting Rich ("How to Use the Will"), Mr. Wattles wrote (and I suggest you pay real close attention here):
"To set about getting rich in a scientific way, you do not try to apply your will power to anything outside of yourself.
You have no right to do so, anyway.
It is wrong to apply your will to other men and women, in order to get them to do what you wish done.
It is as flagrantly wrong to coerce people by mental power as it is to coerce them by physical power. If compelling people by physical force to do things for you reduces them to slavery, compelling them by mental means accomplishes exactly the same thing; the only difference is in methods. If taking things from people by physical force is robbery, then taking things by mental force is robbery also; there is no difference in principle.
You have no right to use your will power upon another person, even 'for his own good'; for you do not know what is for his good.
The science of getting rich does not require you to apply power or force to any other person, in any way whatsoever. There is not the slightest necessity for doing so; indeed, any attempt to use your will upon others will only tend to defeat your purpose.
You do not need to apply your will to things, in order to compel them to come to you.
That would simply be trying to coerce God, and would be foolish and useless, as well as irreverent.
You do not have to compel God to give you good things, any more than you have to use your will power to make the sun rise.
You do not have to use your will power to conquer an unfriendly deity, or to make stubborn and rebellious forces do your bidding.
Substance is friendly to you, and is more anxious to give you what you want than you are to get it.
To get rich, you need only to use your will power upon yourself.
When you know what to think and do, then you must use your will to compel yourself to think and do the right things. That is the legitimate use of the will in getting what you want - to use it in holding yourself to the right course. Use your will to keep yourself thinking and acting in the Certain Way.
Do not try to project your will, or your thoughts, or your mind out into space, to 'act' on things or people.
Keep your mind at home; it can accomplish more there than elsewhere."
And that would be my advice to you today:
Keep your mind at home!
Because it can accomplish more there than elsewhere.
I suggest reading the rest of Chapter 9 in The Science of Getting Rich ("How to Use the Will") to find out. If you don't already have a copy of it, click of tap the links below to get yours today.
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Note: This applies to other partnership, relationship, or spousal situations as well.